There are many options for taking care of the deceased pet's body. Traditionally, veterinarians took care of the pet or the owner had a burial at home. Options now include pet cremation, memorial gardens, and cemeteries for pets -- including horses. There are also several online pet tribute sites.
Understanding
Grief and Loss
Pets are part of the family. Losing a pet is often like losing a close
family member. Grief and even feelings of guilt
are expected after the loss of a pet. People should express their feelings, emotionally and
constructively, as part of the healing process. Talking about emotions or using a journal to explore the feelings of loss, grief, and possibly guilt will help ease the pain over time. Some people may elect to make a donation to a favorite animal
charity in memory of their pet.
If the grief and sense of loss are overwhelming or prolonged, counseling and support is readily available from several sources, both online and off-line.
Be aware that pets may also grieve for the loss of their companion, too. They may exhibit grief by: not eating, not enjoying formerly favorite activities, or mild lethargy. These behaviors should be mild and short-lived. Always consult with your veterinarian to make sure there isn't a medical reason for not eating and lethargy.
Text: Copyright © Janet Tobiassen DVM. All rights reserved.
